I believe there’s two types of people in this world: those who are horse people, and those who think horse people are crazy. The truth is, we probably are a bit crazy, but for all the right reasons. Growing up around horses was a great education, and one that applies outside of the horse world too. While they say you never stop learning from horses, here’s ten lessons they have taught me so far…
One. The world doesn’t revolve around you. It’s raining? Your horse still needs to be worked so you’re ready for that event next week. A public holiday? Your horse still needs to be fed. Not feeling well? Your horse’s wound dressing still needs tending to. Horses teach you to be selfless, and to consider the needs of others as well as your own.
Two. Be positive. Handling and riding your horse in a positive way will get you much further than behaving negatively. A positive mindset and manner promotes the cooperation and understanding required for a harmonious partnership. You’ve got a much better chance at getting your horse over a jump if you ride like you believe you can get over it, than if you ride like you haven’t got a chance.
Three. It’s okay to get excited about food. There is absolutely nothing wrong with doing a little dance when it’s dinner time.
Four. Be patient. Horses are great at testing your patience, but they will also reward you for persistence. Good things take time.
Five. Everyone in the horse world has an opinion, and most of them are only too willing to share theirs with you. You don’t have to take everything as gospel and you don’t have to agree with everyone. In my opinion, the secret is to take it all on board but only use what works for you.
Six. There is nothing wrong with getting new shoes every six to eight weeks; in fact, it's recommended. Look after your feet and try to invest in good quality footwear.
Seven. Horses don’t care who you are. Whether it’s a gentle nudge, a nip, standing on your toes or bucking you off, your “status” doesn’t matter to them and these big, beautiful animals will keep you grounded.
Eight. Don’t try to control the line too much. If you’ve ever ridden down the centre line of a dressage arena or jumped a skinny jump, you’ll know that it’s wise not to try and steer the horse too much – do that, and your line often ends up wonky. Sometimes it’s okay to loosen the reins a little.
Nine. You’re lovable no matter what you look like. In the horse world, there isn’t one particular “desired” breed/colour/size/weight. Different strengths suit different disciplines, and with those varying and multiple opinions (see point five) there’s room for every horse to succeed.
Ten. Look in the direction you want to go. When you’re riding a horse, if you want to end up on the ground (and trust me, you don’t), then that’s the best place to look. If you want to go over a jump, the best place to look is up and over it. Never lose sight of where you want to end up.
If you’re a horse person, feel free to share any other lessons you’ve learnt. And if you’re not a horse person, I hope you managed to read between the lines.
"If your horse says "no", you either asked the wrong question, or asked the question wrong."
- Pat Parelli
That’s all for now,
Jordyn x
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